很神奇的事情 通常在holiday season 我會有 holiday blue. 可是今年我沒有, 因為我有我的貓貓
12/25一整天在家抱貓貓.自從貓貓來了後,有時候沒打電話來,i don't care. Now, I care only about my cat. Then, I am kind of realized that men to me maybe like pets. To be needed and to be pay attention are important. haha
再怎麼說 Christmas is a very important holiday here. He didnot call is so unforgivable. I will not forgive him but haha, I just dont' care. It is all because of MeowMeow.
Today, Little ferry talked about her and her husband. The unsecured feeling was out again. Men! I have such experiences of course. But, none of them, so far, gave me secured feeling. I have to depend myself. Is the definition of men changed?
If a man can not give me secured feeling, at least, stable feeling, why should I wast my time on a man, neither young nor old men. So, why not treat men as pets. Well, no, I am wrong. I can not treat men as pets. Men more like animal, a wild animal. "you can take animal out from wild but you can not takel wild out from animal." Yes, they just like wild animal. Wild animal wants to hurt you then they hurt you without notice. Wild animal will never be stable.
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小艾昨天跟我說台灣最近發生的事情.一個17歲男生跟一個31歲女人的新聞.小艾她說她看新聞就忍不住想到某人.我當然知到所謂某人是講誰. 在她跟我講完那新聞後,我說其實這是現在社會的現象,因為在以前,夫妻很少離婚也比較少大吵大鬧 (至少比較少在小孩面前),而現在社會婚姻根本"死的死逃的逃" 所以小孩子從小就沒有安全感,若是有個比較懂事成熟的女人,根本不需要去引誘小男生,小男生就會因有人treate him so nice and so warm, 自己就跳過來.
父母生氣有什麼用?應該是父母要檢討的機會比較大吧!!!!!! 如果說父母在孩子小時後就給予適當的關懷與愛心,小男生逃向大女人的機會就小很多吧! And, 不要以為男生才17歲以為他不成熟.有些男生雖然年紀小可是心理早已成熟. 我又說”我記得我剛來美國的時候, 1997年還是1998年,不是有一個老師跟一個學生的事情? (忘了那個男生到底多大 好像是小學還是.....) 那個新聞鬧的很大,老師懷了學生小孩,還因學生去坐牢,出來後,又跟那個學生在一起,好像又有小孩,然後又去坐牢,最後一次出來後,因為學生已經成年,兩個人結婚" 你說男生不懂嗎???? 不會吧! (閱讀全文)
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今天一早醒來,好想找人吃IHOP那種超營養極不健康的東西. 可是,才五點半,天還是暗的,不可能有朋友這時候是醒的!!好不容易挨到七點半,趕快爬起來. 可是早就說服自己,下星期就要去training了. 旅館對面就是IHOP ^_^ 所以打消今天去 IHOP的念頭. 不過呢,也已經打算要去WholeFood shopping順便吃早餐了. (閱讀全文)
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剛剛把小提琴拿起來練習
勉強拉了幾下 痛啊
肩膀還是在痛
已經缺課一星期了 看來明天又要缺課 (閱讀全文)
上星期去上課
沒輪到我講課時候,我都在辦公室亂晃,美其名為準備上課資料,事實上是休息啦 (閱讀全文)
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