http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/ 做母親的傷慟... coolyy 2009-10-12T10:43:39Z http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390702 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071031.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的花朵】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">昨晚</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">離家出走，留我一個人獨自面對空屋</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">…</span></p> 我們的故事 2007-12-11T04:07:33Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390701 <p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071030.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></span></font></p><p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">【秋天，滿地的落葉</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">…</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">】</span></font></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天下午，接到做試管的診所護士</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Anita </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">打電話給我，問我好不好？我說我正在上班。她不敢相信今天我還有心情工作，我說一個人在家更難過，講著講著眼淚又掉下來。</span></p> 求子心路 2007-12-11T04:05:24Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390700 <p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071029.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></span></font></p><p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">【雨後，滿地楓葉</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">…</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">】</span></font></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">這一個多月來，我接受另一名不孕醫生的建議，偷偷地進行第二次試管手續。除了我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">與醫生外，我們並沒有告知其他人。想說這事低調進行，或許會有不一樣的結果。結果事實證明這一切，只是上帝的另一個玩笑</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">… (</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">詳細內容請看【</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><a href="http://www.wretch.cc/blog/hiyy&amp;category_id=11095997">做人計劃</a></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><a href="http://www.wretch.cc/blog/hiyy&amp;category_id=11095997">2</a></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">)</span></p> 求子心路 2007-12-11T03:58:24Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390699 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071026.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的顏色】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天下午我打電話給</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Thor</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">，告訴他今天是週五，我的心情很好。晚上何不出去吃個大餐，輕鬆一下？</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">告訴我他一整天想要聯絡</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Claire</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">，還沒聯絡上</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">(</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">請看【</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><a href="http://www.wretch.cc/blog/hiyy&amp;article_id=9555721">學習放手</a></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><a href="http://www.wretch.cc/blog/hiyy&amp;article_id=9555721"> (2007/10/25)</a></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">)</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">。若是聯絡上了，他可能要北上去接</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Claire </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">來過週末，也就不能和我一同晚餐。我問何時能確定行程？</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">說五點前應可確定。</span></p> 新手後媽 2007-12-11T03:56:09Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390698 <p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071025.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></span></font></p><p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">【雨後，滿地楓葉</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">…</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">】</span></font></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天晚餐時我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">在家吃火鍋。原本氣氛不錯，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Claire </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">的一通電話，打亂了所有的平靜。</span></p> 新手後媽 2007-12-11T03:53:49Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390697 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071024.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /><br />【我家火星人的近照】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">又去見我們的家庭諮詢師</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Fran</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">。我告訴</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Fran </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">最近我們的關係不錯，好像沒什麼可探討的話題耶！</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Fran </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">笑說這是好現象啊！我想了想接著說「好吧！既然要談，有件事有點困擾著我，就是我覺得我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">之間好像有溝通上的問題。」我解釋說我指的不是語言上的溝通問題，而是有時候我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">講話，他不是心不在焉，就是根本聽不懂我的話題，讓我有些抓狂。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">轉頭看了看我，一付無辜的表情。</span></p> 我們的故事 2007-12-11T03:37:55Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390696 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071020.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的蘆葦】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">我今天做針灸治療時，和針灸師聊起這些日子不間斷的不孕治療，讓我真的開始覺得自己「老」了。</span></p> 我也來哈拉 2007-12-11T03:34:35Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390695 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071018.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的花朵】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天人不太舒服，提前下班回家。坐在客廳正在看前天錄的「法網遊龍</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> (Law &amp; Order)</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">」時，突然聽到有人敲門，原來是賣生前契約</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> (Pre-Funeral Arrangements) </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">的業務員。雖然讓我覺得有些觸霉頭，但又不好意思直接讓人吃閉門羹。</span></p> 我見我思 2007-12-11T03:32:29Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390694 <p><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071017.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的花朵】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">最近幾位朋友都問我有沒有向上帝禱告求子。仔細一問，才知道他們從同一教友口中聽到「若是</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Yvonne </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">向上帝禱告，今天這些憾事就不會發生在她身上了。」我簡直不敢相信這是從一位有虔誠信仰的教徒口中說出的話，因為這比其他的話都還要惡毒百倍！</span></p> 我見我思 2007-12-11T03:30:34Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390693 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071015.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天的花朵】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">最近有些人看到我在網誌裡提到我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">看心理諮詢師，就留下「有病要看醫生」這些奇怪的留言。讓我不禁要在此呼籲「看心理諮詢不是病」，心裡有壓力與憤怒，而找不到方法抒解，進而做出傷害別人或自己的行為，這才更可怕。</span></p> 我見我思 2007-12-11T03:27:27Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390692 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071014.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【正在縫製中的寶寶雙面外套，裡外皆有特色喔！】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">自從開始學縫紉後，我的週末都變得好有意義，因為可以做好多縫紉的工作，也忘卻生活上的煩惱與工作上的壓力。</span></p> 我也來哈拉 2007-12-11T03:24:56Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390690 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071012.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><font color="#0000ff">【秋天到，發現遍地心形的葉片。】</font></span></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">最近公司請了個工讀生。我今天請她到辦公室詢問她的工作情況，並做簡單的「精神訓話」。</span></p> 職場記事 2007-12-11T03:22:43Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/12/11/390689 <p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071009.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></span></font></p><p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">【</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Thor</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">、我和朋友的孩子】</span></font></p><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">今天我和</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">一起去見我們的家庭諮詢師</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Fran</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體">。</span></p> 我見我思 2007-12-11T03:20:30Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/10/24/389141 <p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "><font color="#0000ff"><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071008.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></font></span></span></p><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "><font color="#0000ff">【<span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif""">不要亂發傳真廣告，不小心可能挨告喔！</span>】</font></span></span></p><p /><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: ">以前就聽說老美愛打官司，先前沒啥感覺，直到今天在工作上收到一封律師來信，讓我終於有此感受。</span></p> 文化差異 2007-10-24T15:49:02Z coolyy http://hercafe.yam.com/blog/coolyy/2007/10/24/389140 <p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif""""><img hspace="0" src="http://home.pchome.com.tw/myhome/coolyy11/20071006.JPG" align="baseline" border="0" /></span></font></p><p><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif"""">【</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "Arial","sans-serif"""">Claire</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif"""">、我和朋友的孩子】</span></font></p><p /><p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif"""">今天是週六，一早我去針灸。結束後，我來到布店裡選縫紉課要用的材料，順便等</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "Arial","sans-serif""""> Thor </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif"""">帶著</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "Arial","sans-serif""""> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "Arial","sans-serif"""">Claire </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: "PMingLiU","serif"""">來和我會合，一同吃午餐。</span></p> 新手後媽 2007-10-24T15:44:32Z coolyy